Could you be quiet, too?

We shared our desires:
Committed and non-judgmental,
I swallowed my pride
As you buckled…
What I can only call
A dildo harness, on your
Delicate bell-shaped hips, we
Did that, and now
It’s your turn, so please
Lay here, the tub’s filled
With ice and water, and once
You pat dry, be nice and still
And try not to breathe
Too noticeably.